The 25th Birthday

It was my 25th Birthday and I was excited about it from past few months. I wanted it to be special in all the ways. I wanted to make it as one of the memorable days for myself and always remember my turning 25. I have always felt happy about birthdays coming, but 25th had to be a special one, making it a promising day.

I talked to my parents about the party and celebration plans. They were all quiet about it. They did not tell me anything about the plans that they had. They kept telling me to keep it simple and sound. I was not happy with their idea of keeping it simple, for I always love celebrating the birthday in a style and I wanted to do it in a style.

I never knew the plans my parents and my sister had been planning. They did not let a single information reach me. Also, they invited all of my friends from school and college and asked them to keep it a secret and should be a surprise for me. 

On birthday eve, the thing were all ready but everyone was very silent. There was no leakage of any plan and I got no information about it from anywhere. I got calm too and thought to keep it simple without much fun and just a simple party with friends.

At sharp 12, my friends banged into my room, and they started giving me birthday bumps and started decorating my room. I was very happy with the start and welcome of the day though my bum was badly hit by my friends. It was like all the happiness and joys in life come with the pain and I endured it. 

My parents in the other room were preparing the table for cake cutting ceremony. The birthday song was played on the Bose speakers which was the birthday gift by my sister. I was loving the day with every passing minute. After the cake cutting event, we all danced and had a small party in the night itself.

My room was filled with lots of gifts everywhere. My friends hid the gifts in all possible weird locations and also they packed them in the wackiest possible manner.

Most of my friends stayed at my place and slept there itself. Near by friends went back to their homes and were ready right in the morning to be with me and make the day a special one for me, for I had mentioned of making my 25th birthday a memorable one for me.

In the evening my father had planned small get together for the family, relatives and friends. We all danced on the dance floor and had the maximum amount of fun. My father presented me a new civic car as a gift on my birthday and my happiness knew no limits. 

It went out to be a special and memorable day for me. My all friends were there with me all the time and my family did it in a style.

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That bold step!

There are times in life when one is tested for patience and checked on the tolerance levels in life. These lessons are important one an individual as these teach a lot to the individuals and keep oneself abreast in life. These lessons and learnings make one strong and determined in life to take up bold steps and opportunities in life.

There are different lessons and teachings for everyone in life. Every individual has a different life from the other, and thus comparing one’s life with someone else’s life is not a good idea in life. One should accept the life and take up the necessary steps for oneself which one think is important and fitting.

Taking up strong and bold steps in life can change the life of the individual and the family for lifetime. Also, it is important that one keeps and takes these steps carefully. The risks taken should be calculated and analysed, for they should not make a person weak, and instead aid one to look at life ahead with a firm view.

The time in my life when I decided to take a bold step in life was when I was seeing constant failures with my education after my failure to write 12^th standard boards due to my bad health conditions in those days. I was seeing constant lows in my life. Failure to write my exams in the first instance and then getting a second chance to write the exams later in the June after the results get declared was a disastrous experience. Life was indeed teaching me some of the important lesson in life to not to give up and learn from the failures that I was seeing. After writing my exams in June, which did not go according to my expectation levels, I decided to join my father’s business.

My parents did not want me take up this step and instead kept asking me to continue with my studies. They kept motivating me to take up studies again and not to think of the failures that had happened. But there was something else cooking up in my mind.

I started taking keen interest in business details and transactions that my father used to make throughout the day by accompanying him to his office. I stayed up till late in the night to understand things much better. I learnt a lot of things which my father due to his anger upon me did not teach and tell me.

I used to search the things online, prepare sheets and learnt a lot with the hit and trial methods in a short span of time. Earlier the business was all no papers.

I decided to take things to next level. I started building and taking up things online. My father had least idea about online marketing and other phenomenon. He was again doubtful of what I was doing with the things.

In a short time I came up with a good site and online tracking and ordering mechanism, which enhanced the sales and turnover.

There were changes happening. My father started appreciating and patted me for the efforts I had put in. He praised me for my efforts before my mom and I told them I continued with my studies through correspondence and was learning new things. They felt happy.

I feel happy about the bold step I took that time and helped myself to overcome my fears and failures. I started a new life for myself and made my parents feel proud of the step that I decided to go on with.

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Life and optimism

Life is a thought process. We keep getting thoughts of varying degrees, whether they be positive thoughts or the negative thoughts. All we need to do is govern ourselves with the thought process that we are going through, and life becomes great and beautiful one with the optimism and hopeful thoughts.

It is important to keep oneself motivated in all the phases and at all the steps in life. This leads to the generation of positive results in all the walks of life and thus reason of manifold happiness and success.

There is so much in nature that keeps us motivated and optimistic to carry out the journey of life in a positive manner. All we need to do is to keep ourselves open to the opportunities to learn something new at all the points and thus take ourselves forward in high spirits and terms.

To me life has presented so many opportunities to learn and be optimistic in life, because being optimistic presents with a lot of good quality experiences and learning about a lot of important lessons in life.

It was during my 12th boards that I fell ill. I fell ill in the month of March, during the boards time. The worse happened when I was being admitted in the hospital for my worsening health and falling standards in my health. I was not able to cope up with what was happening with me those days. My parents were getting worried, not for my board exams, but for my mental condition for not writing boards and what if incase the depression or any other weird state that might hit me because of the things that were happening that time.

Though, I was feeling bad about not writing boards, but I assured my parents that there is nothing to worry and I ll write them later when I would be fine. My situation in hospital deteriorated further and I could not get up to take leave and write my exam. I was all prepared, all I needed was to get up from bed and reach school centre to write the exam, which did not happen.

I accepted the fact and decided not to think much about it. There were negative thoughts that kept coming all this while. I even thought myself to be a disaster and a failure who would not be able to do anything in life. 

There in the hospital, doctors and parents tried their best to keep me positive and motivated, by telling instances and stories about being positive in life for my smiles were fading away from me. What I was seeing happening to me was something I had never expected. 

One day, when I went for my tests and ultrasound room, changed my thought process for ever. What I saw there was a child who was serious. He breathed his last there, and there were his parents standing. It was a painful site for me to see. I forgot my pain and worries. His parents wanted their child to wake up and were in the worst state. My father was standing there itself. He tried to divert my mind for he understood what was going through my mind. 

I got up from my chair and hugged him. He had his own fears. My condition was also serious, though I was out of danger by then, but four days ago, I was in the same state and doctors did not give a hope of my survival.

There itself, I decided to be optimistic for I was having my life with me and my parents were standing with me. It was just an exam that I was missing which could be written later on.

I decided to be optimistic and hopeful for all the things in life, as that brings happiness to all the people around with whom one is attached and associated. We should not give up in the tough and difficult situations in life as those are the moments when life tests us and we should try to give our best without proving ourselves a failure. 

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An important learning on LIFE

A life is a great blessing upon an individual and it must be lived, carried and handled out carefully by keeping each and every step in life with proper care and precautions. It is important that we realize the value of time and money well in life and take the decisions by keeping in mind the terms, conditions and consequences of the outcome.

Life is a wedding

A great metaphor that I have come to frame of life is that life is a wedding, by which I mean to say that an individual is wedded with one's own life. One's own life is a wed lock. It is important that one carries out one's duties and responsibilites well in life and serves the purpose od life in a beautiful manner.

The life that holds so much importance must not be taken for granted. The life that one lives should be a healthy, wealthy and wise one. This is the most important wedlock art, to live peacefully and happily, forever.

Serving is a habit

Serving humanity or the animal life, in anny form is a habit that one cultivates. It becomes a way of life. It is a great deed for the ones who cultivate this art of serving others into themselves and do their best. 

Blessed are the individuals who get to this standard of serving the humans, animals and birds. There is a lot of suffering in the world, and the ones who indulge themselves into serving are the greatest assets of mankind. They are the healers of society, the God sent on the planet.

We must do our bit to serve the cause that is most crucial to us and in this way we can take away the pain and sufferings from the society and this would help in swaying the sorrows from the world. 

Live or Leave ?

Whether to live or to leave, the choice is one's own. It is important to come to wise conclusions in life, else a question to live or leave haunts us. It is a natural question that would be face more oftenly by any individual in life and one has to make the choice. 

Only the fittest survives and others are asked to make a departure. It is thus important to make the decisions of life in a decent and appropriate manner. We must be careful in taking and making the decisions for they will decide the fortune and destiny of the seconds to follow the decision.

Thus, it is essential that one develops the art of decision making in life and reach the great heights.

The art of cooking

Cooking is a great art which wins the hearts more easily than any other art form on the surface of the Earth. It turns out to be a great job and a great affair when the food that is cooked is praised and gathers attention. 

Cooking should be done with a good heart and in a pleasant state of mind. The state of mind determines the taste in the food, to a great extent, as per the observations and conclusions that I have come to largely know. A good state of mind makes the mind happy and a sad state brings forth the weird states. 

A pleasant and a happy state of mind always gives the great results and so is with the food that is being prepared. Thus, a request to all those who stop at this page to keep in mind that your happiness should stay intact when you next time turn on the knobs in the kitchen and begin cooking.

The Shame

It is a matter of great shame for India, where the women are worshipped in the form of Godesses, are ill-treated and mistreated. The worse is the statements being made by the educated nerds where they do fall the minimal standards of being called as humans. They education should be to broaden the view and mindset, and not to make the ill statements which would make them question them their own self and the character. I pity such souls who are tongue-less and head-less creatures.

The Woman Power

Woman as individuals are strong and considering them weak would certainly be leading to a huge revolt in India in the cmoing times on seeing the situations that have been going in India in the recent times and a strong action against all these would lead huge losses to the mankind, which would be to teach the leassons of civic sense to the cannibals that lay here. As per the present scenario that we are witnessing the worst is about to be out with examples like #India'sDaughter where the humanity has fallen to the lowest possible standards.

Voice up against the wrong

It is important for all of us to raise our voice against the wrong and the evils happening around us. We should not stay quiet to the matters that seem wrong to us. We should speak up and voice against any form of evil and try our best to make the changes in the system of the society by fighting for the cause and taking appropriate initiatives to jump to the right conclusions by doing every slight bit.

Care to leave ?

It was a weekend eve. I decided to meet a girl from a social networking platform. Though I do not socialize much, but I decided to give it a try.

The experience was not a friendly one. It turned to be a bad experience, and thus the title od my post "Care to Leave?"

The girl kept me waiting for nearly an hour and then she fell on the road, out of her own mistake, and there began her drama.

She had no other talks to carry on except her own self, and her self obsession which did not even suit her. After a point of time, I decided to drop a message to my friend to call me and ask me to report urgently.

And there I stood politely ahead with my question - "Care to leave ?" and left for my home.

The inner strength

We all humans have a strong internal power that is governed by the faith and trust. Everyone needs to look into oneself and know that intensely strong power that lays with oneself. One needs to identify one's strong and weak points and work on them in order to make the life better for oneself and the others around him/her.

The inner strength of the individual is so strong that it enables one to do wonders and miraculous things into one's life. The results that come out with the listening of inner strength and power of one's own are splendid and amazing. 

We need to recognize and pay heed to our inner calls and strength that resides with us and calls us, which would be our supporting element in attaining great heights in life.

The need of changes in the Government's plans

The programmes that are run in the country need inspection into the already framed plans and policies that were initially made by ourr forefathers, because now the times are changed and with the changing times we need to make the necessary changes in the system and thus, reviving the old plans and policies of the programmes is the urgent need of the hour.

The prime arena that falls under this is education. We need to change the syllabus, books, pattern of education, mode of imparting education using the modern technologies, make the necessary changes by updating the methods and mechanisms of teaching and educating the masses.

Health of the individuals is another major concern which needs to be taken up as the old systems and methods are to be updated and the new developments in the field of medicine and science are to be brought to the main front.

Thus, the government needs to intervene in the programmes, plans and policies and must take initiatives to bring forth the necessary changes in the system.